I loved spending
time at Grandpas in Rajahmundry an awesome place with so many mangoes and the
mighty river Godavari. Every vacation some part of it has to be spent there.
This was as ritualistic as it can get, without any deviation, even if we (me
& my brother) had a very small holiday period part of it we used to spend
there.
It was a lovely
place, where everything seemed like seeing through the VINTAGE / RETRO FILTER of a camera app, everything spoke of age, building,
clothes, practices, the firewood furnace for hot water, my favourite place,
from which I had to be dragged, the battered wall clock, the ancient mango trees,
the old earthenware, and king size beds resplendent with many creaking springs,
the roof top with the weathered tiles which look like they were there from a time
immemorial.
While everything
at Grandpas spoke of age, the old idly lady gave them a stiff competition. She
defied the aging, about whom we will talk a little later.
The courtyard
filled perpetually with the carpet of yellow leaves, which would reappear the
next moment after they were cleaned & disposed, making crisp creaking sound
underneath the feet every time someone entered the backyard, making it
difficult to sneak into it in the afternoons, when we were ordered to sleep, so
that we won't go play in the sun.
It all started
with the mornings, when the only need to get up is to have a proper breakfast. It
meant no more reluctant waking up, switching rooms so as to stay hidden there
by prolonging the sleep time by 5 more minutes.
The morning
starts with a strong scent of firewood burning in the mud furnace, to heat the
water for bathing. The water heated on the firewood and dry leaves has a
different scent, strong & pungent yet sweet.
Fanning the flames
in the mud furnace, feeding it with the dried leaves which were swept and made
into a heap just beside it, while white smoke enveloped like fog in the winter.
The ever cool
Grandpa becoming angry whenever we try to put something else into the fire like
plastic or some old papers, while shouting out, "burn the papers and you'll never be good at your studies, Goddess
Saraswathi will never forgive that".
Suddenly I
declare, "I don't need hot water
I'll bathe with water from the well", and the reply comes from grandma
immediately, "you'll get cold and go
huchi huchi".
The well! There were stories my cousins used
to share about it. It has crocodiles in it! There are turtles!! Every night
crocodile comes out!!! Being the adventurous child I tried to see if they were true,
and I once did see a turtle.
Immediately
after bathing we get yummy tiffin made by grandma. Always tiffin (the best
part) because of the extra orthodox grandma, nothing from yesterday night, all
leftovers, if any, were given to the maid along with the morning breakfast.
There wasn't the concept of the refrigerator. Though I missed chilled water the
benefits are colossal compared to the petty loss.
If the grandma
is late and can't cook for the kids early enough (which happened on a regular
basis), we can go out for tiffin, or buy the idlis with awesome chutney from the
old lady who sold them daily. Everyone who knew her saw her only after her hair
became white, silvery white, which complemented her dirty white sari. She came
by in slow and cautious steps, supported by her walking staff, yelling, 'idleelandi idleelu (idlis)'. She always
had a sweet and warm smile. Her picture froze in my memory ever since. We
talked to her as we do with our kin & kith.
I was too small
to admire her then, but in retrospect, she amazed me, working at that age, not
depending on anyone, maybe even supporting a grandchild. Although her sari was
dirty the idlis were amazing and the chutney. Oh, boy! What a chutney! I and my
brother were ardent fans of that chutney. We used to hope grandma would be late
again so we can enjoy the idlis, and thankfully she was, many a times.
My grandfather
dutifully administering the awesome tasty chyawanprash, after each meal so that
we (me & my brother) remain healthy, never allowing more than a spoonful,
as improper dose would cause diarrhea & other sickness. Grandparents are a
little more cautious about the young ones’ health. Oh, boy! What a taste it
had. What he never knew was I used to use a stool & clamber on to it &
dig my hand into the chyawanprash bottle & eat it, while they (he & my
ever innocent elder brother) lay, snoring into the afternoon air.
Being at Grandpas
is as close to as it gets to have an adult-like freedom, and who doesn't love
freedom. It meant regular coffees and teas which I was categorically denied at
home in favour of Bournvita. It meant watching cartoon network in the morning
even without having the teeth brushed, without any trace of fear or guilt.
Particularly for someone who grew up in orthodox families with both the parents
working mornings were rushed, Grandpas meant heaven, life without any discipline,
because getting used to these working schedules, my parents would never allow
us even on holidays to lie down in bed till late afternoon or just lazily watch
CN without brushing (my mom would kill me if she sees this, so please don't
tell her).
And whatever we
do, grandma used to fill our pockets periodically with snacks so we can eat
while we do whatever we want: fried ground nuts, boiled groundnuts, salted
peas, roasted peas, roasted bungalow gram, fried/ roasted cashew.
The air always
carried just two moods, the extremes. In the mornings and during occasional
siestas it smelled heavily of sleep and of unrestrained energy rest all times. Since
there are never any half-hearted moments, no homework, no need to eat that
curry you don't like: courtesy extra lenient maternal grandparents, no
switching off the TV while you are in a middle of a show with a shout, "Go and complete your homework first.”
Whatever we wanted to do we can do, it was
pure fun, pestering them all day with insane requests, tidbits about
embarrassing things our parents did when they were of our age, bed time
stories, trying to explain Sci-fi movie story to them, only to realize it's a
futile attempt, the tasty prasadam made by a great-grandmother who stayed along
with my grandparents.
May be they relived
through the curious eyes of little ones, agreeing to all their non-contextual
and usually silly demands, and giving in to our requests even before we threw a
tantrum, though we sometimes were as irritating as an itch underfoot while
wearing a shoe, during a formal meeting.
To this day I
remember so vividly the daily outing to the Mango market with my brother riding
the pillion of the Luna (Moped) while I was perched in the bend.
